I know this has nothing to do with animal rights, but I really need some people to talk too. My mom and dad just split up. I’m not for sure how to handle all of what’s going on. It’s been really hard to deal with, my dad is taking it harder then anyone. I don’t have many friends, so that’s why I came here…
Its okay, it happens to a lot of people, and I am sure that everything is going to be okay! Stay strong, you have lots of friends on here! The best way to cheer upis to help others, so go take some action,and I amsure you will be okay!:) I am being bullied by a girl in my grade, and I feel terrible, but I am working to get a law passed here that protects animals. Do a big project to help people or animals to take your mind off of it, i am 100% sure you will feel a lot better!!!! @cassieluvsdinos27 Stay stong hon!
My parents are spliting up right now too. Stay strong, we will get through it. Just remember not to be angery. You have to still love them both just as much as they love us. God has a plan for us and in the end we will be alright. Hes watching over you, helping you stay stong.
Hey @cassieluvsdinos27, I know just how you feel and I know how hard it can be to deal with this. I think the best thing you can do is to try to be there for both your mom & dad the best that you can be without stepping on any toes. It is a very difficult situation, one that I know can leave a person in tears and at a loss for words. It’s hard to see right now, but I can assure you that things will be alright. Give it time and let things work themselves out. Your parents will both be happy again, and with any luck will be able to put aside their differences for your sake. This doesn’t mean that they have to be in a relationship, just hopefully that they’ll get along. Your parents are making a decision that they believe to be for the better. While your heart is aching and you feel like it’s the end of the world, try to remember that this will pass. Things will get better. Best of luck to you. I truly, truly hope that every one recovers from this well.
Hey, I know this can be a tough time I’ve had my parents divorced since I was five with one remarried and one not. The bright side is you will never be a young child wondering what happened or what went wrong and unable to comprehend what is truely going on. Parents splitting or divorcing can be tough but there can always be a bright side to the horrible nightmare. I know nothing that goes on in your home or how old you are or even how the relationship between your parents was but here is my two cents, Stay strong! If your parents were fighting or unhappy a split can make things a little easier on everyone. Because when people are unhappy or fighting it causes stress and resentment in the house hold. This can be passed to everyone and make everyone unhappy which is never good. You most likely will never have to go through your parents fighting or crying over who gets to see you when or what holidays. (I am assuming that you are at an age old enough to decide what you want to do). That can be hard as well because with me personally I want to please both sides but I also know I have the power to time on both sides. As for your your dad taking it hard don’t press too much into what’s going one let him know you love him not matter what and that will never change. You should make sure your mom knows this as well. She may not be showing how much it hurts or bothers her about what’s going on but she will need love and support from her daughter as well. Be open with both of your parents when the time is right let them know how you feel and how this is affecting you as well. Because you are a huge part of this circle don’t ever think that your feelings or thoughts don’t matter. Try to find something to smile about everyday because this can be a hard time to be happy but there’s no reason to let it bring you down every minute of everyday even if your smile is just another cute cat video on youtube! I am so sorry to hear you are going through a difficult time and I hope this helps you see things in a different light and maybe even feel less down. Good luck and stay strong no matter what.
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